As your parents grow older, you may find yourself wondering how to best support them. It’s a question many adult children ask: “How can I help my elderly parents without taking away their independence?” At Support Services Connect Australia (SSCA), we understand the complexity of that question because we’ve spent over 25 years supporting older Australians and their families through the aged care system.
In this comprehensive guide, we explore how to help your ageing parents in a respectful, practical, and empowering way—and how our free Care Finding service can make the process easier.
Understanding Their Needs: Personal, Social, and Financial
Before you begin offering support, it’s essential to identify where your parents need help. Their needs usually fall into three categories:
- Personal Needs
These include activities of daily living and physical health support:
- Assistance with personal care such as showering and dressing
- Medication management to ensure medications are taken safely and on time
- Meal preparation and grocery shopping
- Domestic help such as cleaning and garden maintenance
- Mobility aids and home safety equipment
- Personal alarms and monitoring systems for added security
If your loved ones are struggling in these areas, it may be time to organise an aged care assessment through My Aged Care.
- Social Needs
Many older adults experience loneliness and social isolation. Staying connected is just as important as staying physically healthy:
- Social visits or transportation assistance to and from appointments or events
- Joining community groups like a senior citizens club or church group
- Participating in social or wellness programs to maintain cognitive and emotional health
- Occupational therapy home assessments to enhance safety and independence
- Financial and Legal Needs
Navigating financial matters can be overwhelming, especially in the context of aged care:
- Understanding government subsidies and entitlements
- Help with paperwork and service agreements
- Legal preparation, such as wills, power of attorney, and medical guardianship
- Financial planning to prepare for aged care home fees or home modifications
Getting Started: Key Steps to Take
Helping your elderly parents isn’t about taking over—it’s about guiding them toward the right support systems. Here are some practical steps you can take:
- Schedule a Conversation
Talk to your parents about their current lifestyle and any difficulties they’re facing. Use this opportunity to listen and understand their perspective. Reassure them that your goal is to support their independence, not undermine it.
- Arrange a My Aged Care Assessment
This assessment determines eligibility for government-funded support, including:
- Home Care Packages
- Respite Care
- Transition to Aged Care Homes
- Engage a Care Finding Service
Our Care Finding service is designed to simplify the process. We match your parents with aged care providers that suit their preferences, location, and care needs. There is no cost to use this service—it’s about getting you the right help, not adding to your stress.
- Explore Government Resources
Websites like myagedcare.gov.au offer valuable information, but they can be overwhelming. We interpret that information and help you take meaningful action.
- Involve Other Family Members
Share responsibilities with siblings or extended family. Use tools like shared calendars, check-in rosters, and group chats to stay coordinated.
Common Concerns and How to Address Them
“They Refuse Help”
Older adults may be hesitant to accept help. Respect their autonomy while slowly introducing support. Sometimes, a trial period with a support worker or community group can ease them into change.
“They Don’t Think They Need It”
Gently point out where help might improve their quality of life, such as more time to enjoy hobbies or peace of mind with a personal alarm system.
“I’m Overwhelmed”
You’re not alone. SSCA was created to reduce this exact burden. Our experienced team can handle the complexities while you focus on being a caring son or daughter.
How SSCA Supports You and Your Family
At SSCA, we:
- Provide free, no-obligation advice to families navigating aged care
- Match your loved one with a suitable Home Care Package provider
- Support you from application to onboarding
Our Care Finding and Engagement & Onboarding services are backed by over two decades of industry experience. We use plain language, real empathy, and a deep understanding of the Australian aged care system to guide you.
Conclusion: Helping Your Parents Live Well at Home
Supporting your ageing parents doesn’t mean doing everything alone. With the right tools, services, and guidance, you can ensure they age safely, independently, and with dignity.
At SSCA, we believe no one should navigate aged care alone. Our mission is to connect you with the right support at the right time—so you and your loved ones can focus on what matters most: living well.
Need guidance? Reach out to SSCA today and let our experienced Care Finding team support your family through this important journey.